How to Get Rid of Fear

   Every-time, everyday a fear is in our mind. When we are growing up day by day, our fear is also increasing. It is like some hesitating feeling.

   So many fears are always related to society. This are like---

   * What society think if i do this?
   * Will society accept my decision?
   * If i fail, society will laugh at me.
   * Why everybody don't understand?
   * Why i can't speak on stage?

   Now firstly think what is fear??

    A question -- " Can we be absolutely fearless?" What will you say??

    You say "No". That means you are accepting your fears. So fear can control you. This is our life from morning to night. Observed this, then you able to see, if you don't accept your fear, then you can do everything what you want to do. Many time, we take some wrong decision because of fear.

      Desire, attachment, relationship, love, family are  very important to us. And for these things you are fearful. And these things which are so many attach with us, which are important to us, a fear for losing these things will automatically come to our mind.

     Sometimes, it happen, we have to face so many circumstances in our life.For example, if you fail one time, then you think  you are a failer. In this time, a fear control you that you can't do anything. You lose your hope. But one time failing can't make you a failer.

      The main reason is comparison---

      * When you compare you from others.
      * When you compare your situation with others situation.
      * When you compare you with yourself.

     These are the reasons of fear. Understand these 3 things and get out these comparison mentally, then see, fear will automatically go out from your mind.

     If you want to be, if you want to live without fear, don't compare anything. One thing mind, fears can't make you successful, can't make you happy. Only you can make. So, think what are you and understand and live with your self confidence....